“(a) Service of summons and petition
The petitioner must arrange to serve the other party with a summons, petition, and other papers as required by one of the following methods:
(1) Personal service (Code Civ. Proc., sec. 415.10);
(2) Substituted service (Code Civ. Proc., sec. 415.20);
(3) Service by mail with a notice and acknowledgment of receipt (Code Civ. Proc., sec. 415.30);
(4) Service on person outside of the state (Code Civ. Proc., sec. 415.40);
(5) Service on a person residing outside of the United States, which must be done in compliance with service rules of the following:
(A) Hague Convention on the Service Abroad of Judicial and Extrajudicial Documents in Civil or Commercial Matters; or
(B) Inter-American Convention on Letters Rogatory and the Additional Protocol to the Inter-American Convention on Letters Rogatory.
(6) Service by posting or publication (Code Civ. Proc., sections 415.50 & 413.30).
(b) Service of response to petition
A response to a family law petition may be served by the methods described in (a) but may also be served by mail without notice and acknowledgment of receipt.
The court has jurisdiction over the parties and control of all subsequent proceedings from the time of service of the summons and a copy of the petition. A general appearance of the respondent is equivalent to personal service within this state of the summons and a copy of the petition upon him or her.”
(California Rule of Court 5.68.)